Why should the term "soy boy" be used as derogatory?

By the way, Arnold shares some gems in here:

They are nothing like that, quite the opposite. They are very nice. It's all in your head.

If you experience this often, maybe it just means you are putting that role on them, or maybe you just have the wrong expectations.

Also I can see people confusing "model" mannerisms for self importance, but they are very different things.

These girls had to learn those mannerisms to look good on set, and they know it makes them look hot, so they do them often, but it is just their way to show they want to be liked.



If you mean, you are the one with self importance, then that's fine, you just have to be relatable, you can't just act aloof, and expect that people will talk to you.

You need to use that self importance in your favor, meaning, if you already consider yourself great, then you may as well share that with others, and have fun. Being serious doesn't get you anywhere.

I think I deleted my response by mistake, but it came down to you calling those pictures selfies really hurts.

Also those girls are nothing like that. They may seen that way on pictures because we work hard to make them look like that, but they are just regular girls trying to get an income just like everyone else.

Obviously they can't be nice on social media and talk to everyone, there is not enough time in the day, but in person they are regular girls just going through the motions like most people.

Melee doesn't even need to get buff to start getting girls, all he needs to do is to get rid of all that trauma energy, and become more social, but girls are a good inspiration for anything.

Working out is something you do for yourself anyway, to feel good. When it comes to girls it doesn't really matter that much. I can have model weight, or have been extremely obese, and it has never been an impediment in both situations.

It is all in people's head, if they just act normal, without traumas, have a good mood, and bring the good energy, girls will always reward you for make them have a good time at the end of the day, and you don't need alcohol for that, not at all.

Also it is good to have fun just for the sake of it. I don't have many things in common with the people I meet, yet we can still have a good time because it is about sharing time together, that's all that really matters anyway.

He would just get really mad when Balder walks in and asks them if they have some DLC choices for the forum.  Discussion ensues with all the ladies chatting with our illustrious moderator.

He wouldn’t get lost in the sea of beta orbiters if he was the alpha dog...

But right now I think you’re getting a few things twisted here. I don’t know what our boy Melee looks like. He could be a good looking dude that’s just an attitude and outlook adjustment away from getting any woman he wants. We don’t know. But even if he’s out of shape or maybe not classically handsome or has a lot of money whatever, those things aren’t impediments to picking up chicks. It’s honestly more to do with vibe, style, and confidence that gets you women. You’ve got to get that MGTOW bullshit out of your head and do a little introspection on your part if you’re having a tough time with women, my man. Yeah, there are some gold digging thots out there, but I’ve been with plenty of down to earth chicks that are hot, too. They’re out there, you just have to have to get out there and find them. 

And besides, you don’t work out just because it increases your sex prospects (even though it helps). You do it for you. It’s about pride and self respect. It’s about being able to build something no one can take away from you. That’s why I think, not just Melee, but everyone needs to get to the gym. As much as a killer, intense workout might suck when you’re in it, you always feel good powering though it. And after some weeks or months of disciplined diet and hard workouts, seeing the results always feels good. 

I think being alpha is more than being a jacked up dude. You could look like Jay Cutler but if you head is hung low and you’re sheepish around women and your attitude is bad, you’re more beta that the fat ass that’s chatting up the 10 at the end of the bar. Being alpha is a mindset!