cobretti
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Post by cobretti on Jul 29, 2020 9:58:58 GMT
I think being alpha is more than being a jacked up dude. You could look like Jay Cutler but if you head is hung low and you’re sheepish around women and your attitude is bad, you’re more beta that the fat ass that’s chatting up the 10 at the end of the bar. Being alpha is a mindset! I'm not saying he needs to be jacked. In fact, I have been many, many, many times the fatass talking to the 10 at the end of the bar, and I have came inside that 10 the same night. What I mean is that those behaviors you are describing of being sheep around women are a direct result of those blocks I was talking about earlier, those traumas. Going to the gym is important for what you said, because of self respect, and also because of your mental health considering the body and mind are intertwined. I feel telling Melee he needs to be alpha won't do much for him because it doesn't even work that way, basically he needs to go back to that natural way everyone is when they are kids, and avoid friendzoning himself. That's it. That alone solves everything because if he removes those blocks then he can instantly meet anybody, and by having the ability to instantly meet anybody your options have went from zero to whatever millions of people live in your city. When you have that many options you need a strainer or filter, so the not friendzoning himself solves that. After he starts cuming inside all those girls, and even if it is just one girl he cums on regularly, then all those emasculated behaviors automatically disappear, and if he starts working out even better. It is very simple straightforward stuff. Other than that, everything you said was extremely on point. True! But we’re also losing sight of the fact the he’s also a self describe celibate and if that’s the lifestyle he chooses, that’s ok! Not everyone is ruled by the puss like you and I are. But he should at minimum not be ok with doing things that destroy his body, to get back to the topic at hand. I tend to think the effects of soy on the male body may be a bit overblown, myself. I’ve eaten plenty of tofu dishes in my day and I never developed tits or super liberal politics or any of the purported side effects of soy consumption, but then again I don’t go out of my way to consume soy on a mass scale nor have I read any actual science on it, so I don’t know. What I do know is I tried oat milk once and it was fucking nasty, so I stick to unsweetened almond milk for my dairy substitute. Also, I think he (and again this goes for everyone) should do more to develop an “alpha” mindset. To me, being alpha isn’t entirely about being able to approach women or bang or anything. To me it’s more about carrying yourself with confidence in day to day life. Believing you can handle yourself in any situation. Again, that has a nice side effect of helping with the women because women want a confident man who carries himself well, but it’s just something we should want for ourselves. |
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stratogustav
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Post by stratogustav on Jul 29, 2020 10:31:25 GMT
True! But we’re also losing sight of the fact the he’s also a self describe celibate and if that’s the lifestyle he chooses, that’s ok! Not everyone is ruled by the puss like you and I are. But he should at minimum not be ok with doing things that destroy his body, to get back to the topic at hand. I tend to think the effects of soy on the male body may be a bit overblown, myself. I’ve eaten plenty of tofu dishes in my day and I never developed tits or super liberal politics or any of the purported side effects of soy consumption, but then again I don’t go out of my way to consume soy on a mass scale nor have I read any actual science on it, so I don’t know. What I do know is I tried oat milk once and it was fucking nasty, so I stick to unsweetened almond milk for my dairy substitute. Also, I think he (and again this goes for everyone) should do more to develop an “alpha” mindset. To me, being alpha isn’t entirely about being able to approach women or bang or anything. To me it’s more about carrying yourself with confidence in day to day life. Believing you can handle yourself in any situation. Again, that has a nice side effect of helping with the women because women want a confident man who carries himself well, but it’s just something we should want for ourselves. Well said man, having a healthy self esteem is important, also having a swag can get you a long way with your mood, and with your energy, having your back straight, your chin up, your chest out, are all good postures to emulate because of what they do to your overall mood, and energy, and having your energy up to make your days productive is probably one of the best habits we can develop. We like to rate various things, I feel we should be rating our energy levels as well. If we feel like a 2 that's a waste, every day is important and we should have a better standard for ourselves. Obviously we may not have 10 energy everyday, but going anything below 6 is not a good thing. Exercise and food are definitely an important factor, one of the biggest for sure, but postures, general movement, and having a positive perspective are huge too. |
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Balder
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Post by Balder on Jul 29, 2020 13:49:07 GMT
I'm not saying he needs to be jacked. In fact, I have been many, many, many times the fatass talking to the 10 at the end of the bar, and I have came inside that 10 the same night. What I mean is that those behaviors you are describing of being sheep around women are a direct result of those blocks I was talking about earlier, those traumas. Going to the gym is important for what you said, because of self respect, and also because of your mental health considering the body and mind are intertwined. I feel telling Melee he needs to be alpha won't do much for him because it doesn't even work that way, basically he needs to go back to that natural way everyone is when they are kids, and avoid friendzoning himself. That's it. That alone solves everything because if he removes those blocks then he can instantly meet anybody, and by having the ability to instantly meet anybody your options have went from zero to whatever millions of people live in your city. When you have that many options you need a strainer or filter, so the not friendzoning himself solves that. After he starts cuming inside all those girls, and even if it is just one girl he cums on regularly, then all those emasculated behaviors automatically disappear, and if he starts working out even better. It is very simple straightforward stuff. Other than that, everything you said was extremely on point. True! But we’re also losing sight of the fact the he’s also a self describe celibate and if that’s the lifestyle he chooses, that’s ok! Not everyone is ruled by the puss like you and I are. But he should at minimum not be ok with doing things that destroy his body, to get back to the topic at hand. I tend to think the effects of soy on the male body may be a bit overblown, myself. I’ve eaten plenty of tofu dishes in my day and I never developed tits or super liberal politics or any of the purported side effects of soy consumption, but then again I don’t go out of my way to consume soy on a mass scale nor have I read any actual science on it, so I don’t know. What I do know is I tried oat milk once and it was fucking nasty, so I stick to unsweetened almond milk for my dairy substitute. Also, I think he (and again this goes for everyone) should do more to develop an “alpha” mindset. To me, being alpha isn’t entirely about being able to approach women or bang or anything. To me it’s more about carrying yourself with confidence in day to day life. Believing you can handle yourself in any situation. Again, that has a nice side effect of helping with the women because women want a confident man who carries himself well, but it’s just something we should want for ourselves. Pretty much what it boils down to. Be happy with what you are. It doesn't mean you couldn't improve, but self-loathing doesn't do anything goof for you. |
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stratogustav
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Post by stratogustav on Jul 29, 2020 22:44:15 GMT
Pretty much what it boils down to. Be happy with what you are. It doesn't mean you couldn't improve, but self-loathing doesn't do anything goof for you. A lot of those self loathing behaviors people have are easy to remove once you identify them. The hardest part for people is to admit to have them. I have a friend who managed to stop smoking once he realized he wasn't loving himself by doing that. Once he realized this, he was immediately able to stop smoking. |
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Balder
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Post by Balder on Jul 29, 2020 23:59:20 GMT
Pretty much what it boils down to. Be happy with what you are. It doesn't mean you couldn't improve, but self-loathing doesn't do anything goof for you. A lot of those self loathing behaviors people have are easy to remove once you identify them. The hardest part for people is to admit to have them. I have a friend who managed to stop smoking once he realized he wasn't loving himself by doing that. Once he realized this, he was immediately able to stop smoking. Getting to that point is difficult, but realizing that you need to stop hating yourself is the first step. |
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stratogustav
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Post by stratogustav on Jul 30, 2020 0:04:56 GMT
Getting to that point is difficult, but realizing that you need to stop hating yourself is the first step. Yeah, even on the less obvious things, like procrastinating on important goals, always looking for distractions, or not being grateful for what you have, are all clear signs that something needs to get addressed. |
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Post by Spirit Bomb on Jan 6, 2023 1:20:36 GMT
centipede You don't have to worry about soy lattes draining your masculinity. I didn't some research on this rumor and found nothing. One thing that CAN and WILL drain your masculinity, however, is the calamity known as PLASTIC Plastic is a pollutant so abominable that at the current rate it's being creating it will destroy all mankind within decades. And not just man, either. But other animals, too. Ever heard of The Great Pacific Garbage Patch? All marine life on Earth is getting poisoned by this crap, too. You should be down on your knees thanking soy for existing, because you have been wrong about it this whole time!!
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